Are You Ready For a Change?

By: Coach Shay

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I absolutely loved my job, but my work environment became toxic. I stayed longer than I should have because of the guaranteed paycheck. But my physical health was being impacted.So the day came when my only choice was to submit my resignation because I could no longer risk what the job was doing to my body. It was difficult to resign, but once it was over, I felt courageous, and a weight lifted off my shoulders!

Here are a few things I learned during this part of my work journey:

Set boundaries for work-life balance
Reject toxic behavior as unacceptable and unprofessional
Stay true to who you are and focus on your strengths
Make healthy choices for yourself
Continue to treat people the way you want to be treated

I had to get a plan together for what was next. I felt a good amount of uncertainty because I left a secure job with a decent salary and guaranteed benefits.

I knew what I liked about what I used to do: helping others. Should I start my own business? No longer would I be an employee with specific responsibilities, but I would be the boss. I liked that idea, and I came up with a name I loved for my new business: “The Coaching Salon.” But in order to be successful, I had to answer two questions:

What do I want from my work?
How do I want to impact others from my work?

Working through those questions helped me shift my mindset about work.

Owning my own business would be different, but I was ready. I needed it to be successful so I could make a living, but I also wanted to make an impact in the lives of my clients. How could I do both?

Thriving is important to me, for my clients, and for you.

Maybe you are like me and are tolerating a job that is no longer a good fit. This probably means you have grown, which is a good thing! If you are ready for a change, consider these tips:

Stay in your current job unless you have enough savings to support yourself for 6-12 months. You can develop new plans or do a job search in your free time while still working at your current job.
Ask yourself the questions I asked myself (above). Also: Do I want to work for a company (guaranteed paycheck) or be my own boss? How can I develop myself (learn new skills) to do the work I want to do? What free career services are available in my community?
God has good plans for you! Ask Him to help you transition to your next job. “For the LORD gives wisdom, and from His mouth come knowledge and understanding.” Proverbs 2:6 NIV

Everyone’s career path is different so it’s important to remember that what works for one person may not work for another. Find a career that is fulfilling and aligns with your values and interests. A job that focuses on your strengths will be affirming and cause you to thrive in your work.