My wife and I received a gift twelve years ago \u2013 a baby boy we named Jacob. We had a great life. We were happily married and working in full-time ministry when Jacob joined our family.<\/p>\n Our little guy was amazing. He wasn\u2019t even two years old and he knew all his colors, the names of animals, and he could count to ten. Proud daddy that I was, I knew he was well on his way to being the first doctor in the family.<\/p>\n We were on top of the world, feeling as though nothing could trip us up in this awesome race that we were running.<\/p>\n Then one day, we noticed that all the speech that our son was using was rapidly decreasing. We tried to think that it wasn\u2019t a big deal. After all he was just a baby.<\/p>\n On a routine doctor\u2019s visit we were first introduced to the idea that something may not be quite right with our perfect son. We were referred to a specialist who could monitor him in a social situation. They said they wanted to see how he reacted in a room full of \u201cnormally\u201d developing children.<\/p>\n As we watched our son through the window, without the doctor even saying the words, we knew something was wrong. The pain was so unbearable, so deep, that we could barely talk on the drive home.<\/p>\n Autism.<\/p>\n How can this be God? We are in full-time ministry. We didn\u2019t have time for Autism!<\/p>\n I have to admit that I was very angry at God. \u201cWhy would you allow this to happen to us? We\u2019ve spent our lives serving you God, and autism is what you give us in return?\u201d<\/p>\n Our plans, hopes and dreams for our son lay shattered around our feet. Were they broken forever?<\/em> I wondered.<\/p>\n After a very short bout with self-pity, we asked God to forgive us and to help us help our son. We realized that we needed to be pro-active, so we took a class about autism so we could better understand how to help Jacob.<\/p>\n Honestly, this was a very dark time in our lives, though we were determined to do all we could to help Jacob. We truly felt as if all of our dreams had been shattered.<\/p>\n Like most people we had awesome plans for our lives. These dreams and goals almost never include the \u201cWhat If\u2019s\u201d in life, do they?<\/p>\n For us, just a sentence — four words from the mouth of the doctor: \u201cYour son is autistic\u201d — tripped up our lives. Autism had invaded our lives forever.<\/p>\n If you are in a like situation, it is okay to fall when life trips you up. We did, but then you have to get up. Dust yourself off and with God\u2019s help, face it.<\/p>\n Autism awareness is more common today. It is mainly due to the number of children affected. And a few famous families have had autism invade their lives as well.<\/p>\n The most important thing you can do as a parent facing autism is to arm yourself with knowledge. Many resources are available to educate you about this disorder.<\/p>\n Getting your child help as soon as possible is so important. We were fortunate to catch this neurological disorder early, so our son has been exposed to treatment and specialized services since before his second birthday. This was critical to his successful development throughout childhood.<\/p>\n I believe the biggest battle parents have when dealing with Autism is getting over the initial shock. As parents, we tend to take the diagnosis personal. This is a natural reaction. But getting stuck in our personal pity party can delay the critical early intervention that can set our special children on a path to a more productive future.<\/p>\n Believe it or not, autism is not the end of the world. The Lord has been so faithful. We have learned so much about the love and mercy and patience of God through the life of this young man, Jacob. I wouldn\u2019t trade him for any child in the world.<\/p>\n We are fortunate that today there are so many resources and advocacy groups and programs that can help And now we have hope for an amazingly bright future ahead for our son. We love the gift of our son.<\/p>\n LEARN THE SIGNS OF AUTISM<\/strong><\/p>\n The following red flags may indicate your child is at risk for an autism spectrum disorder. If your child exhibits any of the following, please don\u2019t delay in asking your pediatrician or family doctor for an evaluation:<\/p>\n Did you know …<\/strong><\/p>\n These facts and more at www.autismspeaks.org<\/a><\/p>\n Meet a remarkable young man.<\/p>\n Max doesn\u2019t communicate like we do. But he communicates better than we do about the most important things. Max doesn\u2019t think like we do. But his actions reflect deep spiritual truths.<\/p>\n With honesty and humor, Emily Colson shares about her personal battles and heartbreak when, as a suddenly single mother, she discovers her only child has autism. Emily\u2019s writing will make you laugh, cry, and inspire you to face your own challenges<\/p>\n Available online at www.emilycolson.com or amazon.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" by Victor Velez My wife and I received a gift twelve years ago \u2013 a baby boy we named Jacob. We had a great life. We were happily married and working in full-time ministry when Jacob joined our family. Our little guy was amazing. 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<\/a><\/a> parents who may be struggling with \u201cwhat to do with this autistic child.\u201d We had to learn a whole lot, and fast. If it weren\u2019t for our faith in God and all the help we found, we would not have made it. In the toughest times, God gave my wife and me supernatural strength and unity.<\/p>\n\n
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