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I saw this before I came back to the Lord and I see it even more now that I am a Christian.
Women need to stop letting boys control them with the piece of flesh that’s between their legs.
That’s what I said.
Letting yourself become controlled has caused many to leave Jesus. For some I’ve seen how it even causes them to disobey and disrespect parents and even to forget about their children. Some leave their home state to get away from the friends and family because they don’t want to hear that the guy they’re with is on an assignment from Satan!
Why would I say that?
Because these kind of guys not only abuse women verbally, but they also abuse them physically. They want to be in control of the woman’s life as if they are that woman’s god.
Anytime you find that a person wants to be in control of another adult, that’s the Jezebel spirit. If you can, please take time to Google the Jezebel spirit. Check out the characteristics of that spirit, and you will be amazed.
If you are in this type of controlling relationship, you need to get out. Don’t let this person isolate you and cause you to move away from friends and family. I can tell you without any doubt, going along with that is part of Satan’s plan.
The Bible tells us in Jeremiah 29:11, “‘For I know the plans I have for you,’” declares the LORD, “’plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’” Please allow the Lord to do this for you.
You are not what your boyfriend did to you. You are not what you allowed to happen to you, nor are you defined by all the awful other things that were done to you. None of these things make you who you are.
You are God’s child — that is who you are.* You are beautiful. Your life is worth living. You are precious in the sight of God. The reason people hurt other people is because “hurting people hurt people!”
It’s important to allow your broken heart to be healed. Psalms 147:3 tells us that God heals the brokenhearted. He is the one who bandages up wounds. The Holy Spirit will lead you to godly people who can help you if you let them.
Understand that God wants you to agree with Him — not with the guy who’s on assignment from Satan to wreck your life. You have to stop being in agreement with that person! Because being in agreement with that man is being in agreement with Satan’s plan for your life.
A great verse in the Bible describes what I’m talking about. Amos 3:3 says, “Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?”
Here’s the truth Jesus spoke that you need to get in your head: “The thief comes not only to steal and kill, and to destroy: I [Jesus] have come that they might have life, and have it to the full” (John 10:10). Note: Satan is the thief.
Sometimes it’s hard for the woman who is in a bad relationship to agree with God. That’s because she thinks that the hurt, lies, pain, disrespect, physical abuse, and verbal abuse (defined as “deception”) is love. The devil is a liar, and he clearly wants for women and men to agree with his lie.
What does God say about the kind of real love you want and need? “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud” (1 Corinthians 13:4). That’s much different, isn’t it? I believe Jesus will bless you with a man of God who will love you and treat you like the queen that you are.
I’m praying for you, beloved.
Michael Richards is married with eight children. He grew up in Brooklyn, New York. Today he is an ordained pastor with Bible Refuge Institute. But before receiving his pastoral training certificate, pastor’s license, and elder certificate, he used to be a drug dealer, a stick-up kid, a con artist, and a womanizer. In 1997 Richards went along on a robbery for $30,000, but it failed. He planned to commit suicide, but the Holy Spirit delivered him from that suicidal spirit. Thankful to his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, Michael has been pastoring a house church since 1999 and is involved in street ministry. He hopes one day to open a church to teach people the Word of God so they can learn how to live the Word.
