I absolutely loved my job, but my work environment became toxic. I stayed longer than I should have because of the guaranteed paycheck. But my physical health was being impacted.So the day came when my only choice was to submit my resignation because I could no longer risk what the job was doing to my body. It was difficult to resign, but once it was over, I felt courageous, and a weight lifted off my shoulders!

Here are a few things I learned during this part of my work journey:

• Set boundaries for work-life balance
• Reject toxic behavior as unacceptable and unprofessional
• Stay true to who you are and focus on your strengths
• Make healthy choices for yourself
• Continue to treat people the way you want to be treated

I had to get a plan together for what was next. I felt a good amount of uncertainty because I left a secure job with a decent salary and guaranteed benefits.

I knew what I liked about what I used to do: helping others. Should I start my own business? No longer would I be an employee with specific responsibilities, but I would be the boss. I liked that idea, and I came up with a name I loved for my new business: “The Coaching Salon.” But in order to be successful, I had to answer two questions:

1. What do I want from my work?
2. How do I want to impact others from my work?

Working through those questions helped me shift my mindset about work.

Owning my own business would be different, but I was ready. I needed it to be successful so I could make a living, but I also wanted to make an impact in the lives of my clients. How could I do both?

Thriving is important to me, for my clients, and for you.

Maybe you are like me and are tolerating a job that is no longer a good fit. This probably means you have grown, which is a good thing! If you are ready for a change, consider these tips:

• Stay in your current job unless you have enough savings to support yourself for 6-12 months. You can develop new plans or do a job search in your free time while still working at your current job.
• Ask yourself the questions I asked myself (above). Also: Do I want to work for a company (guaranteed paycheck) or be my own boss? How can I develop myself (learn new skills) to do the work I want to do? What free career services are available in my community?
• God has good plans for you! Ask Him to help you transition to your next job. “For the LORD gives wisdom, and from His mouth come knowledge and understanding.” Proverbs 2:6 NIV

Everyone’s career path is different so it’s important to remember that what works for one person may not work for another. Find a career that is fulfilling and aligns with your values and interests. A job that focuses on your strengths will be affirming and cause you to thrive in your work.

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